Sunday, February 28, 2010

Estoy cansada (I'm So Tired!)

Dominican independence is celebrated each year on the 27 of february. It is a cultural time filled with parades, shows, concerts, and carnavals. Yesterday I went to Santo Domingo with my project partners and some girls from the community to see the parade of the armed forces. It was a nice experience, and the sun wasn't blazing on our skin, which was fortunate. I have never been much of a parade lover, but I am glad that I went. More marching band music would have livened things up a bit ...maybe I will include that in my letter to Leonel. haha. Speaking of Mr. Presidente, I was a bit disappointed of his abscence. Not from the event, but from the parade! When the parade ended, I asked why the president had not made an appearance and Lissette informed me that he was at the starting point of the parade, sitting, waving to all of the marchers from a highly secured spot.
What a let down!

After the parade we drove to Manresa for ice cream. There were a good number of people there getting food, ice cream, and putting their kids on the kiddie rides. There was even a carousel! This Brought me back memories of Central Park! After ice cream, we headed back to our wonderful campo in San Cristobal. I fell asleep in the car ( I was soooo tired) but was awakened on the way as I felt the car stop and everyone around me skurry toward the windows on the left side. I woke up to see a red jeep on the side of the road. Nana and Melanie identified the red jeep right away. "Mom thats Ambiodie's(our community's regidor) car." My project partners rushed to the scene as myself and the four other girls watched from the car. Pretty much every male from our campo was at the scene. They carried knives, machetes and other weapons. I did not like the looks of this one bit. "Surely it was a ladron (thief) who they caught and killed," said one of the girls. At this point I am just thinking to myself.."WHAAAAAAAAT??!!" Yup, its actually common here for a community to rally together and kill a thief who has stolen from a community member. Talk about solidarity! People here say that they have to do that because the police do not do anything.

As we sat in the car, one of the girl's brothers came to the car and gave the full story......It turns out that Ambiody was driving and decided to give two guys on the side of the road a bola ( a ride). The guys turned out to be atracadores (bad guys). Out of panic Ambiody swirved off the road. Thankfully Ambiody was okay. Cant say the same for the atracadores though. The entire community showed up to the scence and took care of the rest....

By the time I got home, it was 9:30pm. I was exhausted, sleepy, still a bit nervous, and full from chocolate ice cream. Not to mention I still had to make brownies for the Kermes the following morning and prepare for my english class which would also take place the next morning. I am happy to say that I completed the lesson plan and the brownies... Not so happy to say that I fell asleep at about 3 in the morning! Today I woke up at 7:45am. I took my brownies over to the Kermes (basically a food sale usually for a cause of some sort...in this case , the kermes is for the sick people of our community; especially one woman who is very sick with cancer), stayed to help a bit and then went over to prepare for english class. After class, I went back to the Kermes to help out. For about 2 1/2 hours I stood at the side of the road with a sign asking the cars that passed by to donate to the cause. At about 3pm my feet couldnt take it anymore and I went home to rest a bit. I had been on my feet since 7:45 this morning! Thats 8 hours! I laid down on my bed with the intention to take a quick 30 min nap and them go back to help some more...however, I was awakened by my mothers phone call at about 4:30pm. I waS still extremely exhausted but managed to speak to my mom for about 30minutes. By the time we got off the phone it was about 5:15pm. I wanted to go back out there to help out but my body wouldnt let me. I have taken the rest of the day to sleep, rest, sleep, and rest some more....Boy,from parades to attack scenes to brownines to lesson plans to kermes' to englsh classes....I am tired

Friday, February 26, 2010

First Family Visit!

My mother and aunt returned back to NY last week after visiting me for 8 days. My grandma came also, but she is actually staying in the country for a bit longer so I wont have to say my goodbyes to her just yet. It was great seeing my family and just taking a little vacation to spend time with them. I introduced them to a lot of community members and to my new apartment...which they helped me fix up a bit (a lot actually!)We spent about half of the week at my site and the other half in the capital. I wish that week didnt pass by as quickly as it did.
I am really glad that my family got to see where I will be living and working for the next year and eight months. I think that the light/water/bug situation caused just a sprinkle of culture shock, but I think that their stay helped them to understand my experience a lot better. The only downside to their visit was my slow, (even reluctant) transition back into the role of a peace corps volunteer. Dont get me wrong, I love my community and enjoy the time that I lived here, but it was just comforting to be around my family and experience life in a way that I have not done in over 6 months. I knew it would only be a matter of time though before I got that volunteer ball rolling again and I am happy to say that this week was my transitional week and today, Friday, that ball is officially rolling. Starting tomorrow I continue with volleyball, girls groups, english classes, the book club, and art class.........Oh, the life of service :)
I have posted pictures from my famalias visit, some chicas at our group meeting,students at the local school performing in honor of Dominican Independence, and and ice cream outing with one of my favorite little girls, Nayeli. She turned 9 on Tuesday so I took to her get some ice cream today!
Family Visit!

Monday, February 8, 2010

Y vas a dormir sola?!?!

Its official!Yesterday my host sister and another girl from the neighborhood helped me move into my new apartment. It is amazing how time flies. It seems like only yesterday I arrived at my host family's door with my luggage. Now, 3 months later, I am here, with my puppy, in my own apartment. Today Michel and I went into the pueblo to buy some stuff for the apartment. I bought a table stove, clorox, towels, cubetas, some food,light bulbs some other little things. I am waiting until next month to get the fridge. Later this week I will go to the hardware store to buy planks of wood. I want to mount lots of shelves around. The apartment is small and shelves will take up minimal space. I am so excited to finally have my own space. Living with my host family was great, but it was time for me to move on. I know I will be over there at least once a week though. They hav been really supportive of me during everything and I know I can count on them! They helped me out with the bed, two plastic chairs, and light bulbs! Yes, I do have electricity (whenever there is luz of course) And I also have running water (also whenever there is luz) My set up is actually pretty nice. I have two entraces, a bedroom, a living room, and a small kitchen and bathroom. There is also an outdoor sink out back. The back yard is really big and has some orange and platano trees too. It think there may be some mango trees as well! Cant wait for mango season! Now it is just a matter of be accomadating all of my things. Right now everything is still pakced because without the shelves, there really is no where to put my things. But thats okay. It was so funny to see peoples reactions to my moving in yesterday. The conversation always went the same...."Ya te mudaste verdad?" >>> "Si, hoy mismo, hace como 2 horas nada mas.">>>>"Y tu companera? Esta ahi?" >>>> "Ay no, ella era alergica a Esencia...Nada mas vivimos yo y Esencia en la casa?>>>>"QUE?!!! Vives sola?!!!" >>>> "No...con Esencia...nunca estoy sola">>>>"Ay dios mio...ten cuidado con los ladrones...no le habras a nadie...Ay dios...Solita" .... Here NO ONE lives alone...It just isnt part of the culture. I always take opportunitites such as the one I described to explain to people that in some parts of the world it is perfectly normal to live alone. Even for women. I am glad I could introduce them to this idea though. I really do feel safe here too. My neighbor is super nice and is always home since she has 4 kids and must take care of them. Last night, at around 7:30pm she yelled my name out because "no me sentia" (she didnt hear me) and she wanted to make sure I was okay. Talk about looking out! So, friends and family...please do not worry about me...Even though, voy a dormir sola...OH and please do not hesitate to send any house warming gifts! :)....portraits...towels...chocolate...posters...movies...music...pillows...candles...you know whatever!

On another note. Our 3 month service traning was last week and it also went really well. I took a young girl from my community with me and we presented the community diagnostic to the other volunteers and some peace corps officials. Everyone really liked it and I enjoyed learning about what everyone else has planned for the next two years! Now with this diagnostic business behind, it is time to get to work. I am starting 3 girl's groups, a women's group, and 2 english classes in about two weeks!I will also be spending some time at the school where I going to see if I cant incorportate a book club and art club as well. Why not before two weeks you might ask? Well, because my mother, grandmother, and aunt will be in town!!! YAY! They arrive on Saturday actually. I cannot wait to see them. I miss them so much. And I cant wait to have some good old Dunkin Donuts French Rolls either! They are only staying for a week, but I will take it! Saturday needs to hurry up already!
Check out the photos link for pictures of yesterday's move!
Moving In